November 27th, 1996 I fell in love with my then, future husband.
November 27th, 2007, I was officially divorced from, what I thought was my greatest love.
11 years of connection total.
December 30th 2007 was the last time I saw him.
His mother died on October 9th, 2013.  I sent him and his homewrecking wife a card, which was more kindess than he ever showed me when my mother died. The extended olive branch, more for me than for him.  I never heard anything back from him...typical coward.

Thanksgiving 2013, and I am grateful for the life that I have and all it's ups and downs. I am grateful for the person I have become. I never knew it would be better, but it certainly is a beautiful life I am living.